Hubby still so very sick

He is getting sicker and sicker ... and I am totally helpless . he now has 17 pounds of fluid god knows where . but he will still not go to the Hospital . I been worried sick about him and have put my treatment off so I can take care of him !  But I am at the end of my Sanity and even the sons are of no help right now ! But that's ok . Somebody has to help . I will call the Dr. Monday and maybe he can fit him in this week . we hardly get any sleep .